Jun 142010
 
The dried flower arrangements pictured to the left were given to my wife by her mother, along with the following card which explains their provenance:

The card (which had been typed by my mother-in-law and subsequently amended in her own hand) reads as follows:
This arrangement of flowers in a vase under a glass bell was a wedding present to Leonora May Anderson when she married Mr. Bradford in about 1882 or to Leonora May Anderson Bradford when she married Rudolph Allen Spitzer in 1886 or 1887. Another version of the history is that it was a wedding present to her parents, possibly in 1852. Her daughter Mina Spitzer Gregg inherited the two arrangements and entrusted them to Margarette Louise Gregg Weaver until someone in the family would express admiration or desire for them. Susan Weaver Brenner, in 1985 did so,  a great-granddaughter of Leonora Spitzer, did so.  Therefore on February 14, 1986, the two arrangements were given to her.

The information on the cards suggests the following tasks:

  1. Identify “Mr. Bradford”  — possibly a cousin (Leonora’s mother was a Bradford) — and research the date of their marriage.  The information I have received suggests that this marriage produced at least one child (Ethel).  What then happened to Mr. Bradford?  
  2. Research the marriage of Leonora and Rudolph Allen Spitzer.
  3. Research the marriage of Leonora’s parents.  In 1852, they would have been 17 & 16 years old.  A date of 1862 might make more sense (Leonora was born in 1863).  Did they have any other children?
Jun 022010
 

Dr. Daniel Hubbard, Personal Past Meditations, raises the question of “Why?” we do genealogical research. He suggests a variety of “why’s” — for example:

  • a pastime to wile away the hours
  • a puzzle to be solved
  • we get to play detective
  • the adrenaline rush when uncovering something new
  • moving from the known into the unknown
  • finding new “cousins”
  • religious imperative
  • on a quest
  • making connections
  • a drive to immortalize

I can resonate with most of those “why’s.” I am still trying to refine my “How-tos.” The real challenge for me right now is improving and extending my source citations. (Actually, the real challenge is just doing it!) There is, however, the question that Dan Hubbard is raising — namely, “Why am I so passionate about my genealogical research?” … and … “Why do I want to get it right?”

I have come to understand my life as being the story I live. Like all stories, it has a beginning, a middle, and an ending. The middle of the story is compromised of many chapters. As I approach my 70th birthday, I am aware that a) I have chapters still to write and b) there are far more chapters that have already been written than those that are yet to be penned.

As I discover more and more of the chapters of the life stories of my ancestors, I find that I learn more of my own story – both the already-written as well as the yet-to-be-written chapters. When I learn that my gg-grandfather (a nursery man and a tombstone carver) and my grandfather (an arc engraver) were artisans of a sort, I begin to understand something of my own artistic inclinations. When I see a consistent story of involvement by my ancestors in church and community affairs, I begin to understand that my call to ministry is as much a matter of family heritage as it is a purely spiritual matter.

Our stories are marvelously connected, generation after generation after generation. The individualism of American culture might suggest that we each start with a blank sheet of paper as we write our own stories. The more I learn about my family’s history and the more I hear others talk and write about theirs, I am increasingly convinced that no one writes his or her story, as if on a blank sheet. My story is a continuation of the stories of the Brenners & the Venningers of Adelshofen, Baden; of the Messeralls of eastern Pennsylvania; of the Smiths from Dayton, Ohio; and of the melting pot that was Youngstown, Ohio. Each new fact that goes into my database, each new ancestor I can name, each new “cousin” with whom I become connected, each of these help me write just a little more of my own story.

So, WHY do I engage in genealogical research? The simple answer is that I learn the facts about my ancestors in order to tell their stories… and I tell their stories so I can be more deeply invested in my own story.

Oh, yes! and I want to leave a good story for my grandchildren to grow with, into, and beyond!